to hate a perfect stranger

Girls need to realize this. We guys don’t care if you talk to other guys. We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys, but when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off, it doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there. We don’t care if a guy calls or texts you. But at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned, nothing is that important at 2am. Also, when we tell you you’re pretty / beautiful/ gorgeous / cute / stunning, we freaking mean it. Don’t tell us we’re wrong. We’ll stop trying to convince you .The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don’t be mad when we hold the door open.Ttake advantage of the mood im in . Let us pay for you! don’t ‘feel bad’ we enjoy doing it. It’s expected. smile and say ‘thank you’. kiss us when n.o one’s watching. if you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed. you don’t have to get dressed up for us. if we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own .we like you for who you are and not what you are .honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s .or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up .don’t take everything we say seriously .sarcasm is a beautiful thing. see the beauty in it .don’t get angry easily.stop using magazines/media as your bible. don’t talk about how hot chris brown, brad pitt, or jesse mccartney is in front of us .it’s boring, and we don’t care. you have girlfriends for that .whatever happened to the word ‘handsome’/’beautiful’ i’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with ‘hey handsome!’ instead of ‘hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy’ or whatever else you can think of .on the other hand im not sayin’ i woulndnt like it ether ;) girls, i cannot stress this enough: if you aren’t being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change!!!!! ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population & find someone who will treat you with utter respect . someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest. someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes . someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel . someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes ….and say ‘i love you’ ..and actually mean it.

guys dont know a lot of things either..the things that they really worry about.

tankar från ett lyrics;

varför jag aldrig släppt det och aldrig gett upp? 
trotts min väg vart lång kantats med gupp.

minns varje ord varje rad jag skrivit
en längtan så stor, 
minns varje dag jag lidit.
har gått genom livet med en övertygelse.
att jag satt något spår som har haft betydelse.
 
minns det som igår, första gången du log, 
som om jag snubblade pladask på marken och bara dog.